Love is in the air; everyone around you is coupled up, but somehow you find yourself alone. I get it—sometimes a solo Valentine’s Day can feel depressing and a little bit lonely with no one to share it with. But it can also be a blessing in disguise—an opportunity to love yourself and treat yourself exactly the way only you know how you want to be treated
Create a day filled with joy, relaxation, and self-care. Whether you’re single by choice or circumstance, these ideas will help you celebrate solo in style.
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8 Solo Valentine’s Day Ideas To Love on Yourself.
1. Pamper Yourself with a Self-Care Day.
Turn Valentine’s Day into a mini self-care retreat. Draw a warm bath, light some candles, and indulge in your favorite skincare routine.
If you want to take your self-care game to the next level, treat yourself to a luxurious face mask like the LA PURE 24K Gold Eye Treatment Masks(amazon). Put on soothing music or your favorite podcast, and let the world melt away. Journaling can also be a great way to reflect on self-love and gratitude. Consider using a guided journal like “The Workbook for Women”(amazon).
2. Plan Fun Solo Activities.
Dive into a favourite hobby. Love to bake? Try a new recipe, like homemade heart-shaped cookies. Into movies? Queue up a romantic comedy marathon or a series you’ve been dying to watch. Grab a cozy blanket(amazon) and settle in for some much-deserved relaxation.
Feeling adventurous? Head to a local art class, or try your hand at painting with a beginner-friendly watercolor set(amazon).
3. Celebrate Your Independence.
Valentine’s Day is a great reminder of how much you’ve accomplished on your own. Write yourself a love letter highlighting your strengths, achievements, and dreams. Need inspiration? Read “Radical Self-Love”(amazon) for tips on embracing your independence.
You could also spend the day sharing love with others. Volunteer at a local shelter or surprise a neighbor with baked goods. Giving back feels great and reminds you how connected we all are.
4. Get Creative with DIY Projects.
Tap into your artistic side with a fun DIY project. Make a vision board for the year ahead or craft handmade gifts for yourself. If you love decorating, try making a flower arrangement with a DIY bouquet kit like this fresh flower arrangement set(amazon).
Want to try something new? Pick up a candle-making kit(amazon) and create scented candles to make your home extra cozy.
5. Treat Yourself to the Perfect Gift.
Who says you can’t buy yourself a Valentine’s gift? Splurge on something you’ve been eyeing for a while, whether it’s a piece of luxurious gold-plated jewelry(amazon), a cozy sweater(amazon), or a new gadget.
Or invest in your well-being with a self-care bundle like the Bath & Body Works Stress Relief Gift Set(amazon). You deserve it.
6. Overcome Loneliness with Positive Practices.
Feeling lonely on Valentine’s Day is normal, but you don’t have to stay stuck in that space. Focus on gratitude. Journal three things you’re thankful for today. Call or video chat with a close friend or family member to reconnect.
Try a guided prayer meditation for spiritual growth and mental relaxation. The Abide app is an excellent resource for finding meditations tailored to your mood and current situation.
7. Host an Alternative Celebration.
Who says Valentine’s Day has to be romantic? Celebrate Galentine’s Day instead. Invite your single friends for a cozy night in with games, snacks, and laughter. Set the mood with a pretty party decoration kit(amazon) designed for small gatherings. You can all wear matching pyjama sets that they can take home to remind them of a night well spent.
Not into hosting? Spend the evening cuddling with your pets or enjoying your favorite snacks in bed.
8. Plan a Solo Getaway.
If you’ve been dreaming of a change of scenery, use Valentine’s Day as an excuse to book a solo trip. Even a day trip to a nearby town can feel rejuvenating. Pack light with the Samsonite Carry-On Spinner(amazon), perfect for spontaneous adventures.
Explore local museums, try a new restaurant, or book a night at a cozy Airbnb to recharge your batteries. Solo travel is all about rediscovering yourself.
Finally, A Solo Valentine’s Day is an Opportunity To Celebrate The Kind of Person You Are Because You Deserve It!
Valentine’s Day isn’t just about couples. It’s about love—including the love you show yourself. Whether you’re pampering, creating, exploring, or giving back, a solo Valentine’s day is all about celebrating the amazing person you are. You deserve it!
With Love
-Dolorese